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Thursday, 21 July 2016

I'M GETTIN' MARRIED?!! [3P strategies]

Assalamualaikum guys!
May Allah blessed all of you:)

Cliche tak tajuk? haha.




At first, I thought macam nak buat video. Bebel pasal tajuk post ni la kan. Sebab malas nak taip. Then fikir punya fikir, nak set up camera, lighting tu semua lagi la malas. So at the end, moh ler kita menaip.haha.

So, am I really getting married? whooaa. *pengsan sekejap.

REALLY??!!!  *mohon faham, ada question mark kan kat situ.

Hokeyh. macam ni cito ea. meyh den nak cito. donga elok elok. Hadam sampai halus dan kalau boleh, bagi lumat terus.haha.

Last week, on 22nd July 2016 (obviously la kan 2016, haih). Dekat dekat jam nak ke middle of the night tu, around 11.30 p.m, I received a wassap from my friend in our group wassap.

Bukan group yang ramai members macam group class tu. Its actually more pada group wassap that only have 5 people in it.  Bukan group puak hokeyh. Nak kata puak jugak? Peduli pulak aku. kahkah. Jahat tak? haha. *Ala korang pun mesti ada kan.ngaku cepat!!

Owh lupa pula, my friends called me "sya" instead of adiba. *ni kita cerita lain post pulak k.haha




abaikan group wassap punya gambar doraemon tu k tu.haha. masing-masing dah besar, perangai semua nauzubillah..budak budak sangat termasuk la yang empunya blog ni ha..hahaa


Then, all of the screenshot above was our conversation on that night la.
Luckily that time, yang 3 orang lagi offline. Fuh fuh leganya macam baru lepas lari 7km.If not, lagi la chaos that group lagi-lagi topic pasal kawin mawin ni kan. hmmm.

Based on that conversation, there was someone did asked my friends if I will get married dalam masa terdekat ni. and I was like, seriously? 

But that time, I dont know why I just think positive because I literally thought this things like a funny matter persis a stupido prank that my friends wanna set me up.

But it is a serious matter actually to them because yela, kitaorang rapat, then alih alih orang yang tak rapat langsung, tahu that I'm getting "MARRIED" dalam masa terdekat ni.

Of course la they will think I backstabbed them kan.haha. Tahu pun kan. yang korang rancang nak kawin senyap senyap tu sape suruh. ha, kalau aku betul-betul kawin, macam mana? Jahat nya aku.kahkah. 

Chill la. I love you guys ok. So, kalau aku kawin hidang bihun and nasi goreng pun, aku bagitahu korang dulu. Then terserah la nak datang ke tak.haha.

Just this matter like a funny things you know. Why ahh? because, seriously? 

How can someone knows that I'm getting married without me, myself does not know about this? haha. And persoalan paling top yang diri sendiri pun tak boleh jawab, WHO IS MY FUTURE HUSBAND? hahaha.

I just can assumed maybe that person have a speciality or keistimewaan yang boleh tahu or ramal masa depan orang lain?hahahah. Or ya, mungkin jugak that person have some kind like a dejavu yang nampak I kawin dengan someone yang well-known enough, or famous? Mungkin la, high possibility that time she realize that the bride is me. *perasan. haha.

And for my friend cakap "masakan pokoknya tidak bergoyang jikalau ngak ada angin".
*Dia tak tahu agaknya MONYET pun boleh goyangkan pokok tu.haha There are so many factors pokok tu boleh bergoyang. Pembalakan haram,monyet lalu sebelah,banjir,pokok kena sambar kilat.haha.

If I really want to change my title from single to bini orang, I will ensure I will finish my 3P's point dulu. *My friends knew this.

Now I gonna shares with you guys. Hadam elok elok naaa.

I've got this 3P strategies from ustazah Fatimah Syarha in her drama "AKU ADA WALI". *I'm really her big fan.lambai tangan.heee

1st P point - PAUSE

"PAUSE" your mind. Muhasabah diri dan ingat balik apa tujuan hidup kita sekarang sebagai seorang student, anak, dan khalifah. Hidup ni sekejap je pun.

One of my favourite QUOTES in that drama  "Kita tak akan bermotivasi besar untuk buat something besar jika tak sibuk dengan tujuan hidup yang besar."

First time I heard that quotes, woaahh. Ma mind is blown. After that I kept muhasabah diri like "It is ok for you to make a mistakes dalam mengejar tujuan hidup(your goals), because we will learned from it. But it is not ok, if we keep repeating our mistakes again and again."

For the 2nd P point - PRIORITY

When we always remember that we have something big that we must achieved, we will focused on it. And makes this big thing as our life priority. 

And my priority now is to gained a knowledge and ilmu as much as I can. Then I'll makes my parents proud of me. Yeayyy!!!

For the last P point - PERGI

Pergi kat sini doesn't mean PERGI randomly tanya kat strangers "hey, you wanna get marry with me". NOOO.... that is totally WRONGG DUDE!!!

This term PERGI, is pergi mendapatkan jodoh dengan doa dan usaha. Dan usaha bermaksud menjadi orang baik luar dalam dari pelbagai segi. So, in shaa Allah we will get our soulmate also seorang yang baik. 

Our last prophet Muhammad s.a.w dan para sahabat ketika berusaha berpegang pada 2 prinsip. 1st, tidak mendekati zina dan yang kedua, meraikan keluarga. :)

THE END!!

So, that is the end of 3P strategies that I applied in my life. Kalau tak habis lagi 3P strategies ni jangan harap nak kawin.haha. Dugaan terbesar sebenarnya dalam hidup kita, ialah diri kita sendiri. Am I right?hmmm.

I'm not that "baik" type of person. Terlalu, tersangat banyak kekurangan.Still memperbaiki diri dan jauh lagi nak jadi baik, banyak yang kena improve. So, if anything you wanna ask, and also if you guys wanna bash me sebab post kali ni bagi you guys annoyed haha, just comment in the comment box below. ok? *I tak makan orang tau.haha

Thanks guys. May Allah blessed.

p/s: oh ya, before I forgot, I totally recommend you guys tengok drama AKU ADA WALI. Terlalu banyak moral values, dan yang mana tengah nak sadokan hati or nak dapatkan semangat study pun, boleh tengok. You guys can watch and download it online :)

That is all from me..
Tataaaaa.

47 comments:

  1. omigad~ I'm totally need this right now dear.. thnx made my night.. 😭😭

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    1. really. He knows and planned everything:) Glad u happy:)

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  2. ermmmmm.....Doreamon mohon sentap!!!!!!!!!

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    1. aku sentap tak habis lagi. pfftt. btw, mohon eja doraemon tu betul2 mi oi.haha

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  3. Salam adiba! setuju dengan semua point, dan saya pon ada point of view yang sama,

    macam saya , kawan dah start tunang , nikah semua, and me still rasa sekarang bukan masa saya lagi , cuma sedih + happy kawan baik dah nak nikah bercampur aduk rasa tu :)

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    1. *tumpang menyelit kejap

      Kadang2 hati tak kuat juga bila tengok orang lain dah masuk alam macam itu,tapi kita fikirkan balik mcm point2 di atas itu dan bermuhasabah. Ada orang boleh gembira dan bersabar tunggu waktunya,ada pula orang yg beriri hati. Jadi jaga-jaga,pesan utk diri sendiri. ehehe

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    2. @thekehalusankelembutan @nanaliena, ini yang dinamakan rezeki. ada orang rezeki kawin awal, dan mungkin rezeki kita bersama Family lebih panjang. it is ok dear sister, Allah already planned everything and He knows everything veru well. REZEKI & JODOH tak akan pernah tersalah alamat:) sampai masa, giliran kita:) stay chill,relax and keep do'a:)

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  4. hahaha, baru datang nak ucap tahniah. hahaha tahniah untk masa akan datang inshaaAllah hehe.

    haritu usaha dan gigih jugala tengok aku ada wali. lepas tu kejap tengok, kejap tak terus dah lupa pasal cerita tu. Hahaha. mmg banyak moral dia.

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    1. haha. thanks untuk masa akan datang juga:) haha. no la. thanks sbb baca post tak seberapa ni:)

      owh yeke? tgok la smpai ending dia, mesti best:)

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  5. Cepatla kawen kak oiii.. Den xsaba nak mkn nasi minyak haa.. Hahahhaa.. ������

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    1. tunggu ekau kawin dulu la jang. btw, cantik profile pic atas ni. macam den kona yo?haha

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  7. ini lah dilema orang masuk 20-an,soal kahwin dah dipersoalkan. hahaha
    aku ada wali dkt al hijrah ada dulu,skrang ulang2 tp dah tamat,tunggu la tahun depan ada punya..

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    1. tu la. nasib masa raya hari tu, takde sapa pun tanya"bila nak kawin", tapi kalau tanya pun ape salahnya, mana tahu nak kenenkan dgn anak dia ke.hahha:)

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  8. haha. gossip. kadang2 kelakar jugak bila org lain lg taw pasal dri kita drp kita sendiri sedangkan kita tataw apa pun pasal dia. maybe sbb life kita lg menarik drp dia kowt. haha

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    1. tu la. maybe dia concern sgt ngan kita ni. takpe2. paham2. heee..:)

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  9. Assalamualaikum adiba,

    Jodoh juga termasuk dalam ketentuanNya..
    In shaa Allah ada jodoh tak ke mana kannn.. :-)

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    1. yup. ada jodoh tak kemana:) tak pernah jodoh kita diletakkan salah alamat. sampai masa, datang la. tak kat dunia in shaa Allah, kat sana:)

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  10. You're so funny sistur xD


    but "that mysterious person" tu creepy doh cemana dia boleh tahu kakdiba nak kawin xD

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    1. haha. XD.

      tu la pasal. until now, kawan tak nak bgtau siapa yang tanya tu. creepy gilaaa!!! ahh takutnya kita.heeee:)

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  11. aku ada wali? yang kat tv al hijrah tu ke?

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    1. aah yup. but actually, prefer tgok kat youtube. then download:) sbb boleh tgok ulang2.:)

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  12. ahahaha! srsly saya sejak akhir2 ni asyik jumpa cerita pasal kahwin je. Buatkan saya terfikir, klu saya kawen tapi tak sempat nak happykan mak ayah cane? tp persoalan trbesar sapa future husband tu? last2 saya tenangkan diri, takpela klu xde jodoh kat dunia.. ahaha

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  13. Hahaa.. Question mark tu sebenaqnya persoalan meh >_< haha

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  14. fuh.. ingat nak kawen dah tadi.. suspen je tajuuknye.. semoga cepat2 kawen yer.. :D :D

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    1. haha. tajuk mesti la kena bagi suspen sikit,heee. in shaa Allah. doakan ya:)

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  15. Haha I really like your writing xD

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  16. Wahhh. Thank you for sharing this story + the 3P strategies! May Allah bless you and your family! Drama 'Aku Ada Wali' tu tak pernah tengok lagi. Rasanya boleh try tengok ni.

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    1. no biggie dear. May Allah blessed you and your family too dear:) tengok tau jgn tak tengok:)

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  17. 3P yang amat berguna.. thanks dear

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  19. mula mula baca i thought sis mmg betul betul nak kahwin haha. btw tk penah tengok lagi drama wali apa tu heee bole tengok ni btw singgah follow sini tq^^

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    1. Haha.tajuk kena la bg suspen sikit.heee. Tengok k. Best:)

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  20. good tips...
    Mula mula igt nak kawen btoi..baru nk wish congrts..

    Hehhee...maybe tu doa utk cpt kawen..

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  21. good tips...
    Mula mula igt nak kawen btoi..baru nk wish congrts..

    Hehhee...maybe tu doa utk cpt kawen..

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    1. haha. thanks. in shaa Allah. doakan ya:)

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  22. hahaha nice stories.. and done following you :)

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  23. A good 3P strategies =)
    insyallah, jodoh tak ke mana. usaha untuk dapatkan jodoh itu juga perlu. Harap dapat yang terbaik untuk awak adiba =)
    btw, baru tahu kewujudan drama Aku Ada Wali..

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